Cultural Etiquette
Dos and Don’ts
Bhutanese culture is deeply Buddhist and very community-oriented. Respect for religion, elders, and the royal family is paramount. Observe local customs to avoid offense:
- Modest Dress: Shoulders and knees should be covered, especially at temples and dzongs. Remove hats, shoes, and socks before entering any shrine. (Carry a scarf or shawl for coverage.)
- Prayer Etiquette: Always walk clockwise around mani stones, chortens (stupas) and prayer wheels (spin wheels clockwise). Never sit or place anything on a mani stone or stupa—they are sacred. If you see locals spinning a prayer wheel, you may spin it too (always spin in the direction of the sun).
- Hand & Feet: Use your right hand (or both hands) when giving/receiving items; never point with the index finger. Avoid pointing your feet at people, religious images, or altars: turn your feet away or cross your legs when seated.
- Monks and Statues: Never touch a monk (even a child-monk) or a sacred object. Do not climb on statues or sit above their level. Respect curfews or restrictions for monks.
- Photography: Generally, people don’t mind photos if asked. Always ask permission before photographing someone (especially monks or women. In temples, follow rules: many allow photos inside (without flash), but no flash or tripod. Don’t photograph religious rituals or flagrant displays of devotion.
- Greetings: A traditional greeting is “Kuzuzangpo la!” (Hello). A slight bow with hands pressed together in prayer pose is polite. Men should not shake hands with women unless offered first. Keep public displays of affection minimal (hand-holding or a light hug is acceptable, but avoid kissing in public).
- Respect for the Royal Family: Bhutanese hold their King and royal family in high esteem. Avoid political or critical remarks about the monarchy or government.
- Tipping and Money: Tipping is not compulsory but appreciated. Guides typically expect ~$20 per person per day; drivers ~$10 per person per day. Avoid openly carrying large wads of cash; discreetly offer tips in an envelope.
- Environmental Respect: Bhutan bans plastic bags. Always carry reusable bags and bottles. Don’t litter — Bhutanese take great pride in their clean environment.
Following these customs shows respect for Bhutanese culture and will be warmly appreciated. In short, be polite, soft-spoken, and patient; your guide will help explain any local customs as you travel.